fix(iroh-net): prevent adding addressing info that points back to us #8650

Job	Run time
check_semver	4m 45s
Cross Build Only (armv7-linux-androideabi)	1m 3s
Cross Test (i686-unknown-linux-gnu)	2m 31s
Cross Build Only (aarch64-linux-android)	1m 2s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-freebsd)	1m 7s
Build wasm32	34s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-netbsd)	1m 8s
cargo deny	30s
Checking docs	1m 20s
Checking fmt	19s
clippy_check	2m 29s
Minimal Supported Rust Version	1m 18s
Run network simulations/benchmarks	8m 18s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, all, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 54s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, all)	3m 20s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, none)	2m 58s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, default)	3m 3s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, none, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 39s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, all)	3m 52s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, default, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 55s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, none)	3m 5s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, default)	3m 43s
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