refactor(iroh-net)!: Rework relay-server binary, more configurable, r… #8644

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Checking fmt	13s
Checking docs	1m 29s
cargo deny	37s
check_semver	4m 13s
clippy_check	4m 9s
Cross Build Only (armv7-linux-androideabi)	1m 2s
Cross Test (i686-unknown-linux-gnu)	2m 33s
Cross Build Only (aarch64-linux-android)	1m 3s
Minimal Supported Rust Version	2m 2s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-freebsd)	1m 7s
Run network simulations/benchmarks	8m 33s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-netbsd)	1m 10s
Build wasm32	33s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, all, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 55s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, all)	3m 29s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, none, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 57s
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CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, default, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 54s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, default)	2m 7s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, all)	3m 1s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, none)	2m 52s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, default)	2m 50s
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