refactor(iroh-net)!: Rework relay-server binary, more configurable, reverse-proxy support #8557

Job	Run time
Build wasm32	28s
Cross Test (i686-unknown-linux-gnu)	2m 32s
Cross Build Only (armv7-linux-androideabi)	1m 0s
check_semver	3m 47s
Cross Build Only (aarch64-linux-android)	1m 0s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-freebsd)	1m 7s
cargo deny	29s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-netbsd)	1m 11s
Checking docs	1m 40s
Checking fmt	15s
clippy_check	1m 55s
Run network simulations/benchmarks	7m 35s
Minimal Supported Rust Version	1m 41s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, all)	3m 21s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, all, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 47s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, none)	3m 15s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, none, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 50s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, default)	2m 58s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, all)	3m 57s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, none)	3m 9s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, default, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 50s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, default)	3m 44s
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