refactor(iroh-net)!: Rework relay-server binary, more configurable, reverse-proxy support #8537

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Cross Build Only (armv7-linux-androideabi)	40s
Cross Build Only (aarch64-linux-android)	39s
Build wasm32	33s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-freebsd)	40s
Checking fmt	10s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-netbsd)	41s
check_semver	3m 13s
Cross Test (i686-unknown-linux-gnu)	58s
cargo deny	29s
Checking docs	1m 26s
clippy_check	1m 26s
Minimal Supported Rust Version	1m 2s
Run network simulations/benchmarks	26s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, all)	24s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, none)	24s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, default)	24s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, all)	33s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, all, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	1m 50s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, none)	31s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, none, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	1m 53s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, default)	34s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, default, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	1m 49s
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