[#264] Expose file descriptor in C++ bindings

[elBoberido]

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This PR adds an API to expose the file descriptor of the listener in the C++ bindings. This is required if the listener needs to be used with a third party event loop.

The access does not happen directly but by a wrapper type to signal the unsafety of the operation.

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Relates to #264

[elBoberido]

@elfenpiff @orecham I'm open to suggestions. I tried to be close to Rust and the call to access the file descriptor would look like auto fd = listener.unsafe().file_descriptor().expect("It works");