[GLUTEN-7126][VL][1.2] Port #6698 #7525 #7560 for Uniffle bug fix

[weiting-chen]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Port #6698 #7525 #7560 to fix Uniffle related bug fix in branch-1.2

How was this patch tested?

local

[github-actions]

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[PHILO-HE]

Seem CI failure is related. @SteNicholas, @wForget

 /root/.m2/repository/org/apache/uniffle/rss-client-spark3-shaded/0.8.0/rss-client-spark3-shaded-0.8.0.jar(org/apache/spark/shuffle/RssShuffleManager.class): warning: Cannot find annotation method 'value()' in type 'SuppressFBWarnings': class file for edu.umd.cs.findbugs.annotations.SuppressFBWarnings not found
Error:  /__w/incubator-gluten/incubator-gluten/gluten-uniffle/velox/src/main/java/org/apache/spark/shuffle/writer/VeloxUniffleColumnarShuffleWriter.java:[199,16] error: cannot find symbol
Error:    symbol:   class RssException
Error:    location: class VeloxUniffleColumnarShuffleWriter<K,V>

[PHILO-HE]

@weiting-chen, the uniffle test fails which should be related.

[github-actions]

#7126

[summaryzb]

@weiting-chen the changes of gluten-uniffle/velox/src/main/java/org/apache/spark/shuffle/writer/VeloxUniffleColumnarShuffleWriter.java is made in #6579 should not be include in this pr.
cc @PHILO-HE @jackylee-ch

[weiting-chen]

@PHILO-HE Please help to review it, thanks.

[PHILO-HE]

Thanks!