xcb-imdkit: Enforce & fix under strictDeps

[OPNA2608]

#326699 (comment)

Fails to cross-compile:

CMake Error at CMakeLists.txt:4 (find_package):
  Could not find a package configuration file provided by "ECM" (requested
  version 0.0.11) with any of the following names:

    ECMConfig.cmake
    ecm-config.cmake

  Add the installation prefix of "ECM" to CMAKE_PREFIX_PATH or set "ECM_DIR"
  to a directory containing one of the above files.  If "ECM" provides a
  separate development package or SDK, be sure it has been installed.

Issue is that extra-cmake-modules is in nativeBuildInputs instead of buildInputs. Move it, and set strictDeps = true to the separation is better enforced even without cross-compilation.

Cross now fail at Qt5 cross-compilation, which is at least "the well-known issue" I guess…

Things done

• Built on platform(s)
  • x86_64-linux
  • aarch64-linux
  • x86_64-darwin
  • aarch64-darwin
• For non-Linux: Is sandboxing enabled in nix.conf? (See Nix manual)
  • sandbox = relaxed
  • sandbox = true
• Tested, as applicable:
  • NixOS test(s) (look inside nixos/tests)
  • and/or package tests
  • or, for functions and "core" functionality, tests in lib/tests or pkgs/test
  • made sure NixOS tests are linked to the relevant packages
• Tested compilation of all packages that depend on this change using nix-shell -p nixpkgs-review --run "nixpkgs-review rev HEAD". Note: all changes have to be committed, also see nixpkgs-review usage
• Tested basic functionality of all binary files (usually in ./result/bin/)
• 25.05 Release Notes (or backporting 24.11 and 25.05 Release notes)
  • (Package updates) Added a release notes entry if the change is major or breaking
  • (Module updates) Added a release notes entry if the change is significant
  • (Module addition) Added a release notes entry if adding a new NixOS module
• Fits CONTRIBUTING.md.

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Successfully created backport PR for release-24.11:

• [Backport release-24.11] xcb-imdkit: Enforce & fix under strictDeps #369119