[BUG] Fix connector-x and psycopg dependencies for CI (#2017)

Use psycopg-binary as benchmarking runner does not have required
libraries installed. Fixed here:
https://github.com/Eventual-Inc/daft-benchmarking/actions/runs/8291353023

Use connector-x 0.2.3 on linux on aarch-64. Fixed here:
https://github.com/Eventual-Inc/Daft/actions/runs/8291745511

requirements-dev.txt

@@ -52,10 +52,11 @@ databricks-sdk==0.12.0
 
 #SQL
 sqlalchemy==2.0.25; python_version >= '3.8'
-connectorx==0.3.2; python_version >= '3.8'
+connectorx==0.2.3; platform_system == "Linux" and platform_machine == "aarch64" and python_version >= '3.8'
+connectorx==0.3.2; (platform_system != "Linux" or platform_machine != "aarch64") and python_version >= '3.8'
 trino[sqlalchemy]==0.328.0; python_version >= '3.8'
 PyMySQL==1.1.0; python_version >= '3.8'
-psycopg2==2.9.9; python_version >= '3.8'
+psycopg2-binary==2.9.9; python_version >= '3.8'
 
 # AWS
 s3fs==2023.1.0; python_version < '3.8'