feat(eval): SWE-Bench stability improvement and add utils

[xingyaoww]

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• move SWE-Bench eval_infer.py runtime creation inside try-except, so we can properly cleanup in case of error
• add combine completion util scripts useful for SWE-Bench evaluation/SWE-Gym rollout
• improve memory efficiency for SWE-Bench update output script to support loading larger files

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docker run -it --rm   -p 3000:3000   -v /var/run/docker.sock:/var/run/docker.sock   --add-host host.docker.internal:host-gateway   -e SANDBOX_RUNTIME_CONTAINER_IMAGE=docker.all-hands.dev/all-hands-ai/runtime:b58d8f7-nikolaik   --name openhands-app-b58d8f7   docker.all-hands.dev/all-hands-ai/openhands:b58d8f7