Make SYCL backend detection more portable #10940

Job	Run time
documentation	21s
clang-format	12s
codespell	12s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	15m 20s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=clang++,macos-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	4m 6s
FPGA_EMU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	16m 39s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icx-cl,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	11m 55s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 46s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=cl,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	15m 33s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	9m 51s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icx,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	11m 41s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	6m 1s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 53s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 47s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	10m 52s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 23s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	10m 54s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 48s
HOST,bknd=serial,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	4m 51s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	16m 38s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	16m 38s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	16m 37s
	3h 37m 58s

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