refactor(iroh-net)!: Rework relay-server binary, more configurable, reverse-proxy support #8560

Job	Run time
Build wasm32	26s
Cross Test (i686-unknown-linux-gnu)	2m 34s
Cross Build Only (armv7-linux-androideabi)	1m 1s
check_semver	4m 35s
Cross Build Only (aarch64-linux-android)	1m 1s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-freebsd)	1m 8s
cargo deny	30s
Cross Build Only (x86_64-unknown-netbsd)	1m 14s
Checking docs	1m 7s
Checking fmt	6s
clippy_check	2m 31s
Minimal Supported Rust Version	1m 20s
Run network simulations/benchmarks	7m 55s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, all)	3m 1s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, none)	3m 48s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, all, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	4m 4s
CI Test Suite / Tests (ubuntu-latest, stable, default)	2m 38s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, none, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 56s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, all)	3m 27s
CI Test Suite / Tests (windows-latest, stable, default, x86_64-pc-windows-msvc)	3m 58s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, none)	3m 13s
CI Test Suite / Tests (macOS-arm-latest, stable, default)	3m 16s
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