Dynamic config listener acceptors

[qzhuyan]

This PR combines:
#327
#308

Because #308 is needed for CI to pass.

target v0.2.x

server side conn configs are deferred to set at handshake time instead of spawn(accept) time.

New:

new async_handshake/2
Support override the conn opts just before the handshake.
New listener scope conf table for handshake the new incoming connections.
New quicer_connection:start_acceptor which supports proc_start_opts and deprecating the old start_link for server.
New quicer_listener:get_conf/2
New experimental API: quicer:probe/2 for probe the connection state with 0 len unreliable datagram

Breaking changes:

c struct ACCEPTOR no longer holds the conn settings(opts).
this also reduces the memory footprint per conn acceptor and stream acceptor.
async_accept/2 ignore the 2nd arg which was for conn opts.
quicer_connection behavior defer the conn settings overrides till handshake.
quicer_listener:reload/2
New acceptors now use the new reloaded config.

other

proper tests range is limited due to microsoft/msquic#4705

[coveralls]

Pull Request Test Coverage Report for Build 12292086247

Details

• 84 of 98 (85.71%) changed or added relevant lines in 6 files are covered.
• 21 unchanged lines in 6 files lost coverage.
• Overall coverage decreased (-0.3%) to 86.214%

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Changes Missing Coverage	Covered Lines	Changed/Added Lines	%
src/quicer_connection.erl	14	15	93.33%
src/quicer_nif.erl	0	1	0.0%
src/quicer.erl	12	14	85.71%
src/quicer_lib.erl	23	27	85.19%
c_src/quicer_connection.c	18	24	75.0%

Files with Coverage Reduction	New Missed Lines	%
src/quicer_server_conn_callback.erl	1	61.54%
src/quicer.erl	1	91.3%
src/quicer_stream.erl	1	77.66%
c_src/quicer_stream.c	2	89.34%
c_src/quicer_config.c	6	87.49%
src/quicer_connection.erl	10	65.17%

Totals
Change from base Build 12204890233:	-0.3%
Covered Lines:	4065
Relevant Lines:	4715

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