Add bind_ip_all argument for mongo arguments

[mikemcowie]

As newer versions of mongod only listen on localhost by default, adding command to listen on all interfaces, as this was blocking the replicaset from forming.

[cravall]

Sounds like a good idea. If you're going to do that, we should remove the bind_ip + 0.0.0.0 above it, as the documentation states:

--bind_ip and --bind_ip_all are mutually exclusive. That is, you can specify one or the other, but not both.

[cravall]

Remove bind_ip setting above

[steven-sheehy]

--bind_ip_all will require mongodb 3.6 or later. --bind_ip=0.0.0.0 accomplishes the same thing and is backwards compatible with earlier versions.