diff --git a/src/main/java/com/actiontech/dble/backend/datasource/PhysicalDbGroup.java b/src/main/java/com/actiontech/dble/backend/datasource/PhysicalDbGroup.java
index 76d3e98cc7..a3e82b7aeb 100644
--- a/src/main/java/com/actiontech/dble/backend/datasource/PhysicalDbGroup.java
+++ b/src/main/java/com/actiontech/dble/backend/datasource/PhysicalDbGroup.java
@@ -215,6 +215,8 @@ private boolean checkState() {
         if (getBindingCount() != 0) {
             state = STATE_DELETING;
             IOProcessor.BACKENDS_OLD_GROUP.add(this);
+            long time = System.nanoTime();
+            allSourceMap.values().forEach(f -> f.setAsyncExecStopTime(time));
             return false;
         }
         state = STATE_ABANDONED;
@@ -265,7 +267,7 @@ public void stopOfFresh(List<String> sourceNames, String reason, boolean closeFr
     public boolean stopOfBackground(String reason) {
         if (state.intValue() == STATE_DELETING && getBindingCount() == 0) {
             for (PhysicalDbInstance dbInstance : allSourceMap.values()) {
-                dbInstance.stopDirectly(reason, false, false);
+                dbInstance.stopOfBackground(reason);
             }
             return true;
         }
diff --git a/src/main/java/com/actiontech/dble/backend/datasource/PhysicalDbInstance.java b/src/main/java/com/actiontech/dble/backend/datasource/PhysicalDbInstance.java
index 5aaf32ae39..0cc65a8679 100644
--- a/src/main/java/com/actiontech/dble/backend/datasource/PhysicalDbInstance.java
+++ b/src/main/java/com/actiontech/dble/backend/datasource/PhysicalDbInstance.java
@@ -62,6 +62,8 @@ public abstract class PhysicalDbInstance implements ReadTimeStatusInstance {
     private volatile boolean needSkipEvit = false;
     private volatile boolean needSkipHeartTest = false;
     private volatile int logCount;
+    private volatile long lastExecTime; // stop、start
+    private volatile long asyncExecStopTime;
 
     public PhysicalDbInstance(DbInstanceConfig config, DbGroupConfig dbGroupConfig, boolean isReadNode) {
         this.config = config;
@@ -388,6 +390,7 @@ public void startHeartbeat() {
     }
 
     void start(String reason, boolean isStartHeartbeat) {
+        lastExecTime = System.nanoTime();
         startPool(reason);
         if (isStartHeartbeat) {
             startHeartbeat();
@@ -408,6 +411,7 @@ private boolean checkState() {
         if (dbGroup.getBindingCount() != 0) {
             dbGroup.setState(PhysicalDbGroup.STATE_DELETING);
             IOProcessor.BACKENDS_OLD_INSTANCE.add(this);
+            setAsyncExecStopTime(System.nanoTime());
             return false;
         }
         if (dbGroup.isStop()) {
@@ -416,6 +420,7 @@ private boolean checkState() {
         if (dbGroup.getBindingCount() != 0) {
             dbGroup.setState(PhysicalDbGroup.STATE_DELETING);
             IOProcessor.BACKENDS_OLD_INSTANCE.add(this);
+            setAsyncExecStopTime(System.nanoTime());
             return false;
         }
         return true;
@@ -423,6 +428,10 @@ private boolean checkState() {
 
     public boolean stopOfBackground(String reason) {
         if (dbGroup.getState() == PhysicalDbGroup.STATE_DELETING && dbGroup.getBindingCount() == 0) {
+            if (asyncExecStopTime <= lastExecTime) { // In extreme cases (equal cases), in extreme cases there may be problems,
+                LOGGER.info("discard expired stop() operations");
+                return true;
+            }
             stopDirectly(reason, false, false);
             return true;
         }
@@ -450,6 +459,7 @@ public void stop(String reason, boolean closeFront) {
     }
 
     protected void stop(String reason, boolean closeFront, boolean isStopHeartbeat, boolean isStopPool) {
+        lastExecTime = System.nanoTime();
         if (isStopHeartbeat) {
             stopHeartbeat(reason);
         }
@@ -518,6 +528,22 @@ public boolean enable() {
         return false;
     }
 
+    public long getLastExecTime() {
+        return lastExecTime;
+    }
+
+    public void setLastExecTime(long lastExecTime) {
+        this.lastExecTime = lastExecTime;
+    }
+
+    public long getAsyncExecStopTime() {
+        return asyncExecStopTime;
+    }
+
+    public void setAsyncExecStopTime(long asyncExecStopTime) {
+        this.asyncExecStopTime = asyncExecStopTime;
+    }
+
     public final int getActiveConnections() {
         return connectionPool.getCount(PooledConnection.STATE_IN_USE);
     }