Make referred.check adjustable at runtime

[SebastianOpriel]

A user shall be able to adjust the referred.check setting at runtime.
Use case: A running connector is configured to operate within a test environment. A user shall be able to switch environments without adjusting the configuration files, but shall be able to adjust the settings via API.

Steps to implement

• Analyze feasibility
• Estimate effort needed and report estimation to @SebastianOpriel @ip312
• Add either a custom API for adjusting the referred.check api/configuration/referredcheck or adjust the existing payload of /api/configurations/{id}.
• Adjust IDS Messaging Services appropriately
• Adjust Dataspace Connector appropriately
• Add functionality at OS front end (@SebastianOpriel)
• Write tests
• Adjust documentation (e.g. usage, hint that config is reset on config file force reload, etc.)